How to tell if a guy is a Jerk
1. Makes you feel like a piece of garbage
2. Lies, deceives and manipulates you
3. Can't be faithful
4. Doesn't think you are amazing
5. Is rude, disrespectful and mean
6. Embarrasses and humiliates you
7. Irresponsible
8. Uses you
9.Degrades you
10. Abuses you!
I know this list is nothing new.
We all know this but sometimes it is good to have a reminder so we can take a good honest
look at the relationship and see it for what it is.
I might not have come across every single point. But clear enough, such guy does exist.
Numerous of my friends who experienced it, went through it.. Which I felt really sorry for them.
Most commonly seen are point 6, 7 and 8.
Embarrasses and humiliates you.
By keeping or pulling up their pride, certain guys tend to pull ppl down just to make themselves looking like a big fuck.
Honestly, I think many of you seen guys who are acting like that. Worse of all, he's your beloved boyfriend.
Why are you torturing yourself?
Irresponsible.
I not sure is that a trend or what. I've been hearing friends going through abortion.
For good and bad cause.
Miscarriage is a rather sad scenario we're looking at. But how abt abortion due to you're not in a state and not ready for a newborn.
The worst I've heard was guy suggesting of paying HALF of the abortion fees.
At that point of time, I was thinking.. HOW ABT KICKING YOUR BALLS AND PAY HALF OF YOUR MEDICATION FEES?!
I'm sorry but jerk like him deserve to burn in hell.
Uses you.
In term of money, body or whatever purposes he can come up to.
Paying for his necessaries, daily meals, tattoo, or worse, his debt.
Just because he can't afford yet he want it.
By the end of the day, who is the one suffering?
If you are in a relationship that you know is harming your very soul, time to get out and move on.
I know it is not always a simple and easy task nevertheless,
best to not give another day to a man who is hurting your life!